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  • Raeford’s MVP, The Rest of The Story

    Blog Post November 2025

    This is my November blog for the faithful readers who find my books worthy of your time. Actually, many of you who send me your comments and post your reviews on Amazon have revealed your recognition of the deeper messages these stories carry. God knows I spent many a night sitting around campfires with buddies, listening to gut-wrenching stories about their experiences in Vietnam, and I’ve done my very best to imbed these in my books. These were my brothers, and I listened to them reveal experiences they later refused to let me write as non-fiction. Thus came the novels—fiction in which their stories play a vital part—which takes me to Raeford’s MVP and a British reviewer’s uncanny insight into the very heart of that story.

     

    The review is posted on Amazon’s Great Britain website by a reader who recognized the true revelations buried beneath the somewhat fanciful story called Raeford’s MVP. Yes, the book is racy and entertaining, but this man saw the surface story as the ’emperor’s clothes’ and merely a way of telling a much deeper story about the human condition, the reality of war, brotherhood, and the true angst of Vietnam War Veterans. At the very heart of it though, as this man clearly wrote in his review, it is a story about love.

     

    Billy Coker, a kid from rural Mississippi, is my banner bearer for this story that probes deeply into the experiences of combat veterans experiencing Post Traumatic Stress. And if you are suddenly thinking “No PTSD for me! It isn’t something I want to read about.” Think Again.

     

    Read the reviews. I don’t think the subject of PTSD could have been better exhibited without showing it through both the uproarious humor and the agony of my character, Billy Coker. Reader comments about crying and laughing out loud on the same page are real. Raeford’s MVP  is Book #1 of the series: Rising from the Ashes — Battles Beyond Vietnam,  and has an average rating of 4.6 out of 5 Stars.

     

    This book tells the story of PTSD in a way that draws in readers and shows them the heart-wrenching truth in an entertaining manner that holds their interests. Billy was a loyal soldier who took care of his men, only to be left searching for meaning in his experiences after he left Vietnam. And unlike where failure is all too often the case, in the end Billy finds redemption through love.

     

    Because I know you must be asking how you can see it, here’s the review from my reader in the UK: Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 31 August 2024 and Posted on Amazon.com.

     

    “5.0 out of 5 stars Insightful, meaningful, funny, painful

     

    This is a story of physical and emotional trauma, both of which are cured by love. The main character is just cool enough to be tolerated at the fringe of the coolest beings in his high school year. He’s also sensitive enough to despise them and empathize with those who definitely don’t fit the model. He’s friendly with one plain, overweight, girl but limits his friendliness to ensure that it doesn’t wreck his “cool enough” status. This cynicism is offset by an awareness and self-disapproval of his behavior and a complete ignorance that what he offers is more than enough and even highly valued.


    His strength of character and empathy for those close around him are further challenged and developed in Vietnam. He’s brave to the point of heroism, selfless and committed to his group and, ultimately, these qualities lead to self-isolation in the aftermath of his service.
    There are periods in the book when it seems unrelievedly dark and hopeless, and I found I had to read it slowly, in small bites. The sensitivity and empathy are choked by cynicism and an extreme sense of personal unworthiness that can be hard to take.
    A long time ago, I read a book called “Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance”. It left a mark on me and this book has, too. It has a similar narrative quality with a sense of personal agony that, perversely, illuminates the story rather than choking it. It’s so well written. It describes issues which we still struggle with today and probably always will. And through it all, there’s a love that is selfless, unrestrained in its quality yet restrained in its application – a most “loving” sort of love.
    It’s one of the very best books I’ve read, and I hope everyone who sees it on the shelf picks it up and also reads it.”

     

    Share this with a friend and send me your comments. Meanwhile, here’s a link to the book on Amazon:

    https://www.amazon.com/Raefords-MVP-Vietnam-War-Book-ebook/dp/B01ANXHX80

     

  • September 2025

    Picture of Rick the Author in a blue colored shirt against a sky background

    For years I’ve done a very minimal amount of marketing and advertising for my books. That has changed, and you may have already noticed that I’ve begun advertising on Facebook. These ads will continue, and yes, you may even see your own words in them. I have used quotes taken from your reviews, and I want to express my sincerest appreciation and thanks to all who have written and posted your book reviews on Amazon and Goodreads. Your words have given me the motivation to continue telling my stories. And with that said, I commit to you that I will never use AI to tell them. My work is MY work.

    My stories come from my own creativity, historical events, and the recollections of veteran friends. My goal is to show readers what the average soldier faced in Vietnam through a soldier’s eyes. Yes, I have blended those realities with somewhat fanciful stories to keep you reading, but they are no less real. I say this because I occasionally receive the response, “I only read non-fiction.” I completely understand and often reply that I too read mostly non-fiction, but with that said I also explain that non-fiction is only marginally better than an AAR (After Action Report) and seldom displays it through the eyes of the front-line soldier, nor does it delve into the psychological experiences of combat nor its aftermath. My work does that.

    Meanwhile, back at the ranch: my wife and I made a road trip up into west Tennessee last week. We drove through a number of small towns, including Alamo, Owl City, and Frog Jump (unincorporated the sign said), and the latter home to a 12-foot skeleton sitting on a toilet in someone’s front yard—really! There was more, but I haven’t been able to get past the scene in Frog Jump.

    “So,” you say. “What’s next?”

    My writing endeavors have run upon rocky shoals. I spent the last 12 months writing a novel that I will not in any manner take credit for and hopefully, you will not see. As you may know, I donate 10% of my book royalites to veteran charities. Co-authoring this book led me into a situation that was morally counter to that goal. I’ll leave it at that, but do not despair. Rawlins Saga Book #5 is in the works. It will focus on the years of 1886 and 1887 in the Montana Territory and the next Rawlins generation. Maybe by February 2026, it’ll be ready. We’ll see. More on that in the next blog post.

    Until then, here’s a link to my author page on Amazon where you can purchase a book: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Rick-DeStefanis/author/B00H2YO2SS .

    Send me your emails, comments, and reviews. I need your encouragement.

  • New knees, Books, etc.

     

    June Newsletter

    Greetings to my faithful readers, fellow veterans, and anyone willing to share a few minutes of their time with me. This newsletter/blog post will update you on my writing efforts and other matters relating to my books. I apologize for not writing sooner or more often, but another knee replacement (the glory of too many impacts with the ground while with the 82nd Airborne) has slowed me somewhat. Yes, an eighteen-year-old will do some crazy things.

    First, I wish to provide a clarification on the Rawlins Saga. Several reviewers have referred to it as a “spin-off of the Yellowstone 1883 Series.” That’s quite understandable. After all, two of the primary characters in Taylor Sheridan’s 1883 story are a Confederate Civil War veteran and his wife who lead a wagon train of immigrants westward. Sound familiar? There are other striking similarities, but it’s incorrect to say the Rawlins Saga is a spin-off of that series, because while Yellowstone 1883 was first shown in 2021, Rawlins books #1 and #2 were published in 2018 and 2019 respectively. I like to think if there was a spin-off, it was Yellowstone 1883. But enough of that business. If that’s the case, I’m glad I could help them out.

    Some of you may have noticed a shuffling (so to speak) of my books into three newly named series. First The Rawlins Trilogy, since it is now four books with a fifth planned, is now The Rawlins SagaThe Vietnam War Series has been divided into two series. The first, (A Soldier’s Heart—Combat in Vietnam) includes the five books whose stories are told as they occurred during the war. The second series (Rising from the Ashes—Battles Beyond Vietnam) are those mostly told from a veteran’s post-war perspective and include Raeford’s MVP, The Birdhouse Man, and Miss Molly’s Final Mission. My Southern novel, Tallahatchie, remains out there by itself.

    And lastly, several readers have asked about the next book. The one I previously mentioned was to be in the Soldier’s Heart Series, but that plan has been dropped due to complications beyond my control. The next book will be in the Rawlins Saga, and I will write more about it in the next newsletter.
    Thanks for reading and writing your reviews of my books. I truly appreciate your comments and enjoy reading them. They keep me wanting to write. I’ll try to get the next newsletter out a little sooner, and until next time if you recieved this update via email and want to see a complete list of all my available books, click the button below, and it will take you to the website.
    Best Wishes,

    Rick